Choosing a dildo for the first time can feel confusing — there are hundreds of sizes, shapes, materials and textures. This guide breaks everything down into simple steps so you can confidently choose a dildo that matches your comfort level and pleasure preferences.
⭐ 1. Choose the Right Size
When it comes to dildos, size is the most important starting point.
Beginner Sizes
- Around 4" to 5.5" insertable length
- Slimmer width
- Easiest for first-timers
Intermediate Sizes
- Around 6" to 7"
- More filling sensation
- Great once you know what you enjoy
Large Sizes
- 8"+
- For experienced users only
Always choose comfort over size — bigger doesn't always mean better.
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⭐ 2. Pick the Best Shape for You
Different shapes feel different inside the body.
Realistic Dildos
Look and feel like the real thing – veins, head, lifelike texture.
Smooth Silicone Dildos
Beginner-friendly and easier to insert.
G-Spot Dildos
Curved tip for internal pleasure points.
Double-Ended & Strap-On Compatible Dildos
Perfect for couples or pegging play.
Suction Cup Dildos
Attach to flat surfaces for hands-free fun.
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⭐ 3. Choose a Body-Safe Material
For the best experience, choose:
✔ Body-Safe Silicone
- Soft, flexible and hypoallergenic
- Easy to clean
- Works with water-based lubricant
Avoid jelly, rubber or unknown plastics — they can contain unsafe chemicals.
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⭐ 4. Vibrating vs Non-Vibrating Dildos
Non-Vibrating
- Simple and easy to control
- Great for thrusting
- Good for beginners
Vibrating
- Adds internal stimulation
- Perfect for blended pleasure
Choose based on whether you prefer a simple feel or vibrator-style experience.
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⭐ 5. Always Use Lubricant
Lubricant reduces friction and increases comfort.
- Use **water-based lube** with silicone toys
- Reapply as needed
- Avoid silicone lube on silicone toys
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⭐ 6. Cleaning & Storage
- Wash with warm water and toy cleaner
- Let it dry fully
- Store in a cloth bag or drawer away from dust
Good hygiene extends the life of your toy and keeps you safe.
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